Spa Day - Monday, November 8th

Details for the

Spa Day

Monday,

November 8th


 

Plan so far:

 

Arrival: ~11am

Lunch:  12:30pm

Sunglasses Photo:  3:30pm

 


 

 

Driving Directions:

 

Valet Parking $10:

SoJo Spa

660 River Rd, Edgewater, NJ 07020

 

 

 

Free parking 1 block away:

 

606 River Rd, Edgewater, NJ

Google Maps

 

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Chez-La Dungeon Chauffeurs:

Chez-La Pickup:  10am

SoJo Spa Arrival:  ~10:45am

 


 

A departure for Chez-La will leave at  4pm

ETA 5:05pm according to Waze

5:15-5:30pm more likely.

 


 

I will be staying at the Hotel RL Monday night so driving by Chez-La.

Departure times for myself and the second chauffeur TBD;

whenever it makes sense 🙂

 


 

Tips:

  • Bring clean flip-flops and a plastic bag so you can wear them on the roof then put them in your bag while barefoot indoors.

 

  • I will wear sunglasses for the one photo and not worry about makeup.

 

  • Reservations are available and can be canceled for a full refund up to 30 minutes prior to the entry time you select.
    • The chauffeurs will likely drop off by 11am.

 

  • I start in the Silk Bath (below the waterfall on the left of the image) as it is one of the higher temperature baths and after a while get hot enough to walk around comfortably in the high 50s/low 60s.
    • Shortcut in white - the door is to the right of the indoor baths.

 

Yes, the formatting glitched below. Nope, I don't feel like fixing it =^.^=

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Guests

  • Friendly femme & non-binary adult industry pros may be invited so long as it is understood that whorearchy is not welcome.
    • Guests/dear friends include Dominas, FSSWs, strippers, and porn stars.
    • Slut-shaming or otherwise perpetuating patriarchal purity culture is ridiculous and rude; I do not want my friends to have to deal with any of that nonsense.

 

  • Before inviting square friends, please double-check for whorephobia - just because someone is fine with one thing doesn't mean they are cool with everything noted above.
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Men

  • I want to have a happy birthday with guests who feel safe.  Boundaries on men are necessary for this to be possible.

 

  • Any man brought along must understand he is not to speak to me or any of my guests unless we speak to him or otherwise *expressly consent* to the conversation.

 

  • Please do not publicly announce that you are looking for SoJo spa gift cards if you are announcing your attendance.  Let's keep this location a secret to protect us all.

 

    • We will have two there for service.  Shermie and Bruce provide airport service for a few of the guests and will be providing rides to the spa.
    • Yes, the Shermie who teaches fire play classes and has been active in the community for years.

Rideshares from NYC

 

Lyft rideshare groups by neighborhood will be organized the weekend prior.

  • Send an address to input into Lyft either with the confirmation info below,
        • or,
      • By Friday, November 5th to:

Shermie and Bruce have space for four each.

    • There will likely be a Chez-La Dungeon pickup around 10 am.
    • Possibly Upper East Side as well?
    • I suggest departure times of up to 3:30 or after 6:30 to avoid traffic.
      • They say they live to serve so have no preference on times.
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Our rideshare coordinator who will be happy to answer any question about the location or event, maid danielle of Canada.

COVID Info:

 

  • Proof of vaccination, or a negative test from within 72hrs, required to enter.
  • Masks are optional for vaccinated guests.

Gifts / Presents

 

  • Truly, your presence will be the best present 🙂

 

  • Getting clients/subs/fans to contribute Lyft gift cards to the rideshare pool would be awesome!  They are sold in drugstores and available online here:
  • My favorite gifts to receive are non-appearance-related compliments. Ya, I've been dealing with men for a while now...

 

So, you would like to join the spa party 🙂

 

If you are reading this I have personally invited you and you are one of the first.  Hi!  Please let me know if the answer is 'yes' to any of these:

 

  • Can I add you to the online guest list below?

 

  • Would you like to join a ride-share?
    • Note 'Chez-La Dungeon'
      • Or,
    • Send an address for Lyft.

 

  • Would you like to be added to the group chat on Signal?

While I would not want to be in charge of it beyond 11/8, I think it would be a great idea for us as a community to have access to a group chat on a platform more secure than a social media app. There's a mute function 😉

    • Please send your number if so.

~ Thank you ~