My Wishlist


 

I very much appreciate

the thoughtful, considerate individuals

who distinguish themselves from the rest

by going above and beyond

for me.

 


 

Gift card I would most enjoy at this time: 

send to:

Santillo

I would love to receive these from someone who gives for the joy of gifting and seeing another happy.

 

If you would prefer to negotiate a correspondence package beyond receiving photos and up to three chats, please speak with me first.

 

These are a few of the most gorgeous pieces on earth! I would be overjoyed to receive them as gifts 🙂

 

 

P.S. As I am close to hitting a reward goal on a credit card, I would prefer to receive currency (ideally via Zelle as CashApp takes a fee) instead of a gift voucher so I can use my card.

Gifts may be shipped to :

P. Designs

48 South Broadway #447

Nyack, NY 10960

 

If sending cash/check/money order via USPS, UPS, Fed-Ex, or DHL, please send the ETA via email, so I know to go pick it up - 'signature required' must arrive during post office hours.

 

PayPal, Venmo, or Zelle are available for established patrons.

 

Bitcoin: 1CzQCfZRPmo6GxzALYE5puqsFhSD6SZaY3

No kink-related comments on CashApp.

I offer coaching and consulting services

and use it to receive gifts.

 

Comments are welcome to follow via email.

If anyone prefers WishTender,  where you pay 10% more than an item or experience costs for a layer of privacy, I can create one.

NYC Dominatrix and FemDom Mistress Lady Victoria stands in white lingerie holding the chastity key on a chain around her neck.

Wanted for autumn.

 

I have this in cotton from my Wall Street days; frequent dry cleaning aged it terribly.

This taffeta version may keep up with me.

I'll think of you with a smile every time I put it on and stay nice and warm this fall 🙂

Lululemon - Running & Winter Gear

 

Gift cards are available at drug stores and online, these are always an appreciated gift 🙂

Wool Blanket Scarf - $98
Running Gloves - $42 - Lg
Legwarmers - $58
Ear Warmer - $38
Running Vest - $148 - Size 6
Arm Warmers - $38

Collaborate on the creation of kinky art with

me and my favorite FemDom photographer;

 contributions of $750 - $2,000 are welcome.

 

I travel to Tommy-O in Florida.

Sponsoring a tour to Palm Beach or Miami

will expedite the time until our next shoot.

My 2022 images are by Tommy-O. Click here for his portfolio.

Sponsor ideas are welcome for 1/2 of the

setups of a shoot they cover in full with my

favorite celebrity erotic photographer.

 

Small - $1,600 - 2 setups / 10 pictures

Medium - $2,200 - 3 setups / 15 pictures

Large - $2,800 - 4 setups / 20 photos

All of my early images are by Will. Click here for a kink portfolio on his website.

I had one of these and loved it!

It fell down an elevator shaft and was destroyed.

I would love to receive a new one as a gift 🙂

Celtic knotwork looks beautiful to me.

I would love to own this treasure.

*Treat me to this to see me happy or see me wear it in person.  Photos are a $500 value, not an option for this alone. 

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I use Glo for yoga, meditation, pilates, and workouts ~5 days a week all year long.

 

I would think of you often and fondly for covering this cost for me 🙂

Sponsorship Opportunities

 

What I truly wish for

is that most precious commodity:

Time

I want time to pursue my dream.

 

Sponsoring my necessities, wellness, and craft

saves me the time spent earning that money

so I have free time to focus upon my goals,

 

which is perhaps the most impactful

service you could provide for me

at this time.

Auto Sponsorship

 

Sponsor my safety and independence

by taking care of the costs of my car.

 

Gas: $100 per month

Insurance: $200 per month

New tires: $500

 


Home Sponsorship / Adopt a Bill

 

Covering these will gift me the

freedom to pursue my dream.

 

Rent: $1,500 per month

Groceries: $600 per month

Utilities: $200 per month

 


 

Sunday Dinner Sponsorship

 

Cover my weekly treat

for a note of thanks and a selfie: $125

 


Contribution methods are noted here

 

Sponsor My Success as a Coach

 

Coaching sessions: $180 per month

Coaching conference admission: $800

Reimburse my certification: $15,000

 


Sponsor my Hair, Nails, and Massages

 

Winter and summer salon trips: $200 each

Spring and fall salon trips: $350 each

$100 quarterly for products

 

Manicure, pedicure, chair massage: $100

Full-body massage: $100


SW Community Retreat Sponsorship

 

Coming soon!

I have The Wicked Retreat in November.

Some of the top FemDom film stars will attend.

 

This is an opportunity to cover part of my development as a FemDom and receive exclusive perks in the form of photos and -perhaps- videos... 😉

Leather, Latex, and 'Stuff'

 

Honestly, I do not need any more 'stuff.'

After +7 years as a Domina, I am running out of storage space & embracing minimalism.

 


 

* Investments Preferred *

Stocks today will cover costs when I am 80 🙂

Gold and silver bars are most welcome!

Max out my SEP IRA to be a favorite 😉

 

Be a Downpayment Angel; a gift of $100k is ~20% down on a modest duplex near me. I would rent out both units, and the tenants would have it paid off around the time I want to retire.  IMO, genuinely caring for someone means wanting them to have food, shelter, and safety for the rest of their lives - this would do that beautifully 🙂

 


 

That being said, yes; I do appreciate luxury and would enjoy receiving:

 

A photo setup is a $500 value.

A gift's trade value is capped at $300 for chats.

Only listed items have chat trade value.

I do not take loans from patrons.

 

NO KINK COMMENTS ON EGIFTS

Do not address me as 'Mistress,' refer to kink themes, meetings, phone calls, or chats.

eGifts are to be sent to the Gmail address below, NOT the Lady Victoria addresses.

Thank you for not getting me banned from my favorite companies 🙂

Comments are welcome to follow via email.

If you are looking for chat via text, telephone, email, or video;

please go the efficient route and schedule here - I very much prefer phone calls to email/text/video.

Unwanted Video Removal

 

If you search 'Lady Victoria NYC ballbusting' you will find two videos I did not consent to have published.

The man in it lied to get me to shoot with him, saying nothing would be published unless I gave the 'ok'; he has refused to take them down.

 

According to an attorney who specializes in this area, the only way to remove them from the web would be to get that guy to sign the copyrights over to me or to someone who will file the DMCA takedown paperwork every time they appear online.

 

I refuse to negotiate with someone who has already lied to me and I will be dammed if I pay him for the copyrights.

 

I would be enormously grateful to have these consent violations removed from the internet.

This was such a wonderful success!

Sponsor perks included exclusive photos from my trip to Hawaii with a girlfriend.

Leaving it up so you may peek:

Sponsor a Hawaiian Treat

Adding this here as I have read that those so inclined are drawn to the wishlist page:

A new interest I would love to explore:

Financial Domination

 

It seems like during the lockdowns, many discovered that they could serve a Domina's real-life needs remotely and that playing with what is arguably the most powerful - and taboo - tool in the world can create deeply fulfilling power play dynamics.

 

Aspects I am drawn to:

 

  • Praise Kink FinDom: Living in a state of gratitude and expressing exuberant appreciation for those who serve me and my goals is my preferred state and situation.

 

  • Forced Financial Planning: Being the commanding yet benevolent financial planner who sets goals for your needs and holds you to a budget for your own good-and mine 😉

 

  • Real Life Servitude & Sacrifice: Receiving the adoration & dutiful service of someone who toils in real-life ways to provide for my real-life needs & serve my highest goals.

 

  • FinDom subs seem to genuinely care about who their Mistress is as a person and want to see her fulfill her dreams, giving their service a depth and authenticity that I admire.

 

Book a chat today to share your thoughts on FinDom with me, or send a gift to begin contributing to my journey.

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