Welcome to the wonderful world of Kink

Bravo!

It takes courage to make it this far.

I am glad you are here ūüôā

 

Working with newbies,

individuals and couples alike,

has been a specialty of mine since I became a pro in 2015.

 

A level of confidence and trust is necessary to begin this adventure.

 

Choosing a guide for this journey is an important decision.

You probably have a million-and-one questions

on a quest for enlightening answers,

or, want to just let go

and dive in.

 

The right guide is one

you can trust to make intelligent decisions while

they are in command and guide you safely through an

Extraordinary Experience.

Bravo!

It takes courage to make it this far.

I am glad you are here ūüôā

 

Working with newbies,

as individuals and with couples,

has been a specialty of mine since 2015.

 

A level of confidence and trust

is necessary to embark upon this adventure

of exploration and discovery.

 

Choosing a guide for

this journey is an important decision.

 

You probably have a million questions

on a quest for enlightening answers,

or, want to just let go

and dive in.

 

The right guide

is one you can trust to make intelligent

decisions when they are in command and

guide you safely through an

Extraordinary

Experience.

Introduction to Kink
Introduction to Kink
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Everyone feels nervous at first ūüėČ

 

This is what seems to work:

 

  • We connect remotely before meeting in person, either speaking on the phone or via text.

 

    • If you do not feel comfortable discussing your kinky inclinations, this will simply be a chat to say 'Hello!'; discuss the time or location details; chat about non-kinky mutual interests; likely you will ease some of your nervousness and start feeling excited to meet.

 

  • In person, we often start off with a conversation over a beverage or a meal, generally becoming more comfortable, and, excited!

 

    • I won't bring up your kinks if you don't. ¬†I have seen some stoic individuals come back to me-enthusiastically-every few months for over a year before being able to speak candidly during our social time. ¬†There is no 'right' speed for all this, only what feels right for you.

 

  • We enter the playspace. ¬†I will guide the process, outline the safewords and explore, out-loud, ideas for our time together.

 

    • You are encouraged to use the opportunity to practice asking for what you want and¬†negotiating your¬†Kink - an excellent skill to have!
    • If you would rather not engage and have filled out the contact form in detail, you will not need to say anything more complicated than 'Yes' or 'Yes, Mistress.'

 

  • I end the scene with time for Aftercare. To bring you gently back down to earth, have some water, perhaps receive hugs or lay your head in my lap, and/or talk about anything you wish.

 

    • You will have permission to text me directly to request a phone conversation for the next 48 hours as you may have powerful thoughts come up - Google 'sub drop' for more information on this common phenomenon.

 

  • You will be advised to take it easy for the next day, don't try to analyze, just let your mind flow and see where it takes you.

 

    • I will follow up on the second day via email and you will be welcome to schedule a follow-up chat. ¬†There is no expiration date on this as there is no 'right' speed.

 

Couples:

 

  • The woman must be the one to reach out to me.
    • If no one is a woman or both identity as women, then the bottom/submissive should initiate.
    • The only way I will meet a female-male couple without speaking to the woman first is if a Blue or Purple level experience is pre-paid with the understanding that there will be no refund if she does not give her Enthusiastic¬†Consent for me to be there and I leave within a few minutes.

 

  • Preliminary and follow-up conversations are included with your booking for both parties.

 

  • Usually, it works best for me to meet with the woman (or person on bottom/sub if not a female-male couple) 1-on-1 before the other person joins.

Frequently Asked Questions

 

Q: Is this going to hurt?  

Are you going to yell at me and call me names?

 

A: Only if you ask nicely ūüėČ

 

Pain or humiliation will only come into play if you explicitly request so.

Consent is a cornerstone of BDSM - no ethical player will engage in these activities without consent.

 

Those who are drawn to extreme play and harsh Mistresses are welcome to see me for an exploratory experience.  We can experiment with various forms of intense play and find out where your limits are.  Many of the Mistresses who play rough will only see those who have a reference as they have very limited patience for those who do not know how to behave properly - I can guide you and optimize your chances of being well received.

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